It is a very simple concept to describe- think of an actual pie, which typically would be cut into 6-10 slices. Each piece of pie stands on its own when removed from the entire pie, and is in itself a “whole” piece. At the same time, while all 6-10 slices are separate entities when removed, they are still also part of the same overall pie.
For a more detailed look at this concept, see today’s full-length version of 100 To One!
1) Choose the right person
2) Be able to discuss (almost) any subject
3) Let honesty work for you
4) Know the difference between truth and fiction
5) Continue to remember (and show) your partner why you chose them
For a more in-depth take on these tips, feel free to go to today’s full-length blog 100 To One!
Paradox- a seemingly true statement or group of statements that lead to a contradiction or which seems to defy logic or intuition; two true sentences which put together seem incompatible as both being true.
Life at times can seem like a constant stream of contradictions. The ability to balance nonstop choices and manage conflicting choices is one of life’s great challenges. For more on this story, please check out today’s 100 To One blog post!
As of course you know, this is an extremely abbreviated list! Nonetheless, people have had some
of their worst blow-up arguments over these kinds of issues.
Look for the return of the normal length 100 To One posting’s on Monday, as well as upcoming
blog snippets.
It is almost impossible to describe just how astute people are in their attraction process. It’s difficult to fully comprehend the accuracy of people’s Invisible Connection, and the precision with which we’re attracted to certain characteristics in others. In this way, people are all truly geniuses!
As captivating as that is, given most people have “gone fishing” for the holiday, I will too, and see you next Friday. Wishing a fun and safe Memorial Day weekend!
If your goal is a long-term relationship or marriage, keep your eyes wide open during your first 4 or 5 dates, because the personality traits you see will be the ones you’re gonna get for the rest of your life! To read the full blog, go to “People Are Complicated.”
Picking up on the theme from Monday (“Fighting the Good Fight“), here are some more of the infinite examples of how people and couples act out their hidden “grudges”:
• An All-Star NBA player consistently disregards team rules and jeopardizes both his place on the team, and the team’s success; grudge- had a controlling parent who placed too many tight restrictions on him.
• A woman consistently leaves a trail of crumbs on the counter, despite many requests from her husband; grudge- parent had a compulsive habit of cleaning up and sometimes throwing away her “stuff” without her permission.
• Woman pursues career path with many years of schooling to become a highly successful engineer; grudge- she grew up in a chaotic, disorganized family environment.
• Guy frequently asks a neighbor, with whom he is friendly, “Hey, are you around this weekend, we should get together?”, and then is never available; grudge- his parents consistently made promises they didn’t keep.
Can you guess the common thread here?? You may be surprised to discover how many of our life’s “dots” are connected. Many more examples to come!
A little known part of the traditional vows that should be in every wedding ceremony you ever see!
“I, Mr. Yada, take you, Ms. Yada, to be my lawfully wedded wife/husband. I promise to love, honor, cherish, and be the target for all of your stored up anger, pain, and frustration toward your parents.”
For a more detailed explanation, feel free to read the fuller blog- http://irritationmanagement.com/2011/05/09/
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